light on or light off ? Q? about sex

[Demi.M]

i like it dark and romantic when i have sex
but the guys i take home keep turning the
lights back on looking in the mirror
what's up with that u guys need to see how
good you are?


where are all the good man?

[rogerbo]

my wife also wants the light of, but i like it on, because i want to see in her eyes. Btw i don't need to look in the miror when i'm f... . I see myself every mornig in the mirror. 8).

[Demi.M]

u want to see her eyes

come now be honest our body
turns you on u want to see it

[Rhekn]

Its been so long since I got any I could live with lights on, lights off, a spotlight, have it so dark you need infared goggles just to feel your way around.............
The only thing that matters is I get some!

[TeenGodFather]

[quote:25efb6e9aa="Demi.M"]
i like it dark and romantic when i have sex
but the guys i take home keep turning the
lights back on looking in the mirror
what's up with that u guys need to see how
good you are?


[b:25efb6e9aa]where are all the good man?[/b:25efb6e9aa]
[/quote:25efb6e9aa]

Are you a bit selfish? Why should they do like you want? Can't you do how they like? The last comment was nasty. :evil:

hehe...

No comment on the actual question.

[rogerbo]

[quote:5cf030674f="Demi.M"]
u want to see her eyes

come now be honest our body
turns you on u want to see it
[/quote:5cf030674f]

of coarese if she would not turn me on why should i have sex with her :roll:
But i'm not talking of having a spotlight turned on her :idea:.
Demi.M
Did you ever look in the eyes of your lover when he shoots ?
Do you know his impressions when he gets to the top ?
Thats why i want to see my wife :!:

[Cartman]

I like to have the light on but not to look at myself, men pull some pretty fucked up faces when they come and I don't want to be seeing myself looking stupid. I like to look into the persons eyes I am with.

[Dax]

Lights on or off.. does not matter...

I think it depends on the mood.. sometimes u fee like making love. sometimes like just fucking!

:twisted:

[Bake]

Lights off for me otherwise my glow in the dark comdoms dont work :lol:

[wetpussy]

[color=darkblue:c53929386c]I prefer lights on so I can admire my boyfriend's gorgeous body and his delightful facial expressions during sex.[/color:c53929386c]

[florian]

since i dont know what im doing

8O LIGHTS ON 8O

[Psycho Circus]

Demi, I'm of two minds on that....all depends on my mood and the partner's mood.

I like the lights on so I can look at her eyes and see what is passing there. In addition, yes, the visual stimulation of the body of the woman I am making love to is exciting, you are damned correct! *smiles* Also, there is the thing that maybe what she sees will turn her on, too. Now, it is a proven fact that men are more completely aroused by sight, whereas a woman prefers sounds and/or touch. Mind you, this isn't 100% accurate, just the [i:3a21d30514]normal[/i:3a21d30514] estimation, normal meaning the largest majority.

I also like the lights off, because quite frankly, a little bit of mystery, in the right mood is a [i:3a21d30514]major[/i:3a21d30514] turn on. Plus, hearing the moans, gasps, pants, grunts and other cute little sexy noises that the other makes is a massive exciter too. Having a sense taken away is a definite turn on for a lot (hence the BDSM thing of sensory deprivation as a tool), so its a really groovy thing at times, in its place. Besides, making love and trying to imagine what the partner's face is doing, what sort of expressions and so on, is a real kicker. So, I love it both ways.

I'm a very sensual person, so I break the mold of all men being sight aroused as their major arousal method. There are others, I am sure. I love to touch, caress, kiss, and so on. I don't have to see you to be excited by you. But seeing you excites me too. If you follow my meaning here. Either way is fine, but sometimes one is great and sometimes the other is. It all depends.

Just my lil ol less than 2 cents' worth :wink:

[Cartman]

[quote:dc8e72fcbd="Psycho Circus"]
I also like the lights off, because quite frankly, a little bit of mystery, in the right mood is a [i:dc8e72fcbd]major[/i:dc8e72fcbd] turn on. Plus, hearing the moans, gasps, pants, grunts and other cute little sexy noises that the other makes is a massive exciter too.
[/quote:dc8e72fcbd]

You lie, the real reason you like the lights off is so you can pretend your in bed with her sister or best mate. :lol:

[Psycho Circus]

[quote:91355add49="Cartman"]
You lie, the real reason you like the lights off is so you can pretend your in bed with her sister or best mate. :lol:
[/quote:91355add49]

[i:91355add49]Shhhhhhhhhh....!!!!!!!![/i:91355add49] You're not supposed to [i:91355add49]tell[/i:91355add49] on me!!!!! *LOL* :mrgreen:

[Heinrich]

i feel much more comfortable with light off hehehe

[spacedog]

lights on if she's really hot, lights off if it's my wife so I can pretend she's really hot.. :evil:

[SteveE]

[quote:1b6d437482="spacedog"]
lights on if she's really hot, lights off if it's my wife so I can pretend she's really hot.. :evil:
[/quote:1b6d437482]
is she that good looking :fing

light's on 4 me if she's ugly there is always the dog..
8)

[rogerbo]

[quote:566a0d2b92="spacedog"]
lights on if she's really hot, lights off if it's my wife so I can pretend she's really hot.. :evil:
[/quote:566a0d2b92]
Hey spacedog
what hapend when you sayd yes :dd ?
man i feel with you, take a brown bag print out a pic of a hot girl glue it to the bag = porblem solved :evil:

[spacedog]

Nah, I love her, & she's a good looking woman, just not the same since birthing 2 children, But I love her anyway.

[Quantum-X]

..if its a casual thing, lights on, i say..

if it's something intimate, keep them off,, explore with your other senses :D

[FOX]

Lights ON, curtains OPEN, windows OPEN and that's just while having sex by myself :mrgreen:

[SteveE]

[quote:7f19ed0aa3="FOX"]
Lights ON, curtains OPEN, windows OPEN and that's just while having sex by myself :mrgreen:
[/quote:7f19ed0aa3]

[b:7f19ed0aa3]Too much information ![/b:7f19ed0aa3] :D

[Klaus...]

:idea: